Our celebration of Christmas is ongoing. This is not about ‘making a point’ or offering a corrective to others. It is a matter of taking the opportunity to express our joy and gratitude, as well as our resolve that the birth of Christ make a real difference in our life.
We hope that our celebration comes naturally as a sort of spontaneous expression. At the same time, it is something we work on. There is no surprise here. The most important ‘things’ we want to cultivate in life—namely, the virtues—are just so: they become increasingly spontaneous precisely by our intentional efforts.
Among the ways we can choose to celebrate around the hearth in our home, two especially come to mind: singing (in this case called caroling) and reading aloud.
The most important things in life call for song! There really is something to the sentiment, “so I had to say I love you, in a song.” As Augustine remarks, “Only the lover sings.” Song not only springs from love; it also expresses and shares our love, and can even grow our love. Christmas caroling is a wonderful and unique instance of this.
Reading aloud is what many find the most practical way to do story-time. Story-telling is an art, and it takes practice. Reading aloud is precisely such practice, because it allows us to benefit from the greatest story-tellers: such as Charles Dickens in A Christmas Carol, or countless others.
So let us gather around the table, or the hearth, or wherever. And let us sing, and let us tell stories. Indeed, many of our carols themselves tell a story—aspects of the story that grounds and gives meaning to all stories, most of all the story of our own life. ~ ~ ~
LifeCraft offers resources to HELP YOU SING TOGETHER. Download our printable Christmas carols booklet HERE.
I also recorded AUDIO CHRISTMAS STORIES (several of our favorites!) to jump-start your reading aloud together. HERE at Spotify, and HERE at Youtube.
ALSO: If you are local in Virginia, you are invited to come to a Lessons and Carols ceremony at the Christendom College Chapel, Thursday December 28 at 7:30pm. See flier below!
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“The most important things in life call for song!” Yes!
I don’t know if it’s a generational thing or a cultural thing or a NYC thing. But I was born in ’55, a Boomer, so my parents were of the Greatest Generation. My dad was a city dweller and my mom ended up as a professor in the city. When my brother and I were born we moved to the suburbs North of NYC. But, as with most such families, old customs were brought along. We sang together most Sundays, especially in the colder weather days. Mitch Miller was a big one because he included sing-a-long sheets. The nuns carried this along into the Christmas season. When we moved to Long Island, no one followed suit and, sadly, the tradition died off. Well, my wife and I revived it to the extent that we spontaneously sing now – in the car and at home. If our grown daughters are around, so be it to join in. But sing on, we will!
And the good news, Bob, is that will always be in your power!
Great advice ~ but also a bit depressing for those of us who are single and have no one to “gather” with. We used to sing and read aloud in my family. Merry Christmas!
That is a suffering, Goldberry. It is my sincere hope that you find some surprising opportunities to sing or read together. And that you might also find comfort in some singing and reading alone–which is always a kind of preparation for the unexpected guest or friend. Merry Christmas to you too!
A little off topic, that program of Lessons & Carols looks wonderful. If only Front Royal wasn’t an 8hr trip from Ct. Our cathedral parish here in Norwich, Ct has performed a service of L&C for 44 years now. It’s always held on the 3rd Sunday of Advent and includes beautiful hymns and many carols for the congregation to sing along with. It includes an adult choir, children’s choir and a hand bell choir. I often tell my wife Cindy, that lesson & carols is a nice way to wrap up Advent and truly prepare for Savoirs coming in a few short days at Christmas. We are very blessed.